Fifty-six-year-old Tony O'Mara, a volunteer at St Mary’s Church in Bridgwater, who has overcome his own 40-year addiction, has been nominated for a BBC award for his work supporting others in the place that helped him change his life.
Tony has been named as a finalist in the BBC Radio Somerset Make a Difference Awards. recognising the extraordinary support he gives to people experiencing homelessness, addiction and hardship.
His nomination comes after a remarkable personal journey. Originally from London, Tony struggled with addiction for more than four decades before finding recovery through rehabilitation and eventually arriving at St Mary’s Church in Bridgwater.
Reflecting on that turning point, Tony said the church gave him something he had been missing for much of his life.“When I came out of rehab, I wasn’t prepared for life sober. St Mary’s treated me like a human being – with love, respect and kindness. It gave me purpose. Without this church, I don’t think I’d be sitting here today.”
Now two years into volunteering, Tony spends his days supporting others facing the same challenges he once experienced.“The welcome I received is the gift I’m trying to pass on. I just want other people to experience what I experienced. It’s a team effort – it’s not about me.”
Despite being shortlisted for the award, Tony remains characteristically humble.“I’m not really processing it. It’s a great honour to be recognised, but I don’t even think about what I’ve done. I’ve just tried to be friendly and speak to people.”
Revd Suse Osmond, Vicar of St Mary’s, said Tony’s impact on the community cannot be overstated. “He changes people’s lives every single day and doesn’t even realise it. He’s an inspiration to so many people. Whether it’s supporting rough sleepers, helping people into accommodation, or simply making sure someone has food, sunscreen or someone to talk to." She added that Tony’s own experience of addiction allows him to connect with people in a way that builds trust and hope. "I don’t think I have ever met anyone as full of gratitude as Tony, his relationship with Christ and his rich prayer life are foundational to the way he now lives. People feel seen by Tony. He reminds everyone that every person has dignity, value and something to offer, whatever their circumstances.”
St Mary’s has developed well-being drop-in sessions that bring together partnerships from across Bridgwater. It’s a welcoming community where people from all walks of life come together in a mutually flourishing space. There is also homelessness support and practical services, including healthcare, addiction and mental health support alongside creative activities.
For Tony, the church’s greatest strength is its authenticity. “Everything that’s done at St Mary’s is natural. People leave their troubles at the door and feel part of something. Everyone mixes together and everyone is welcomed.”
The BBC Local Radio Make a Difference Awards celebrate those making a difference in their communities. Tony’s story is a reminder of how a warm welcome, kindness, and acceptance can help transform lives, not only for those receiving support, but also for those giving it.