Is this a ministry for you to explore?
You may feel called to this ministry if you are:
- Already experienced in pastoral ministry or the leading of worship
- Compassionate and able to listen deeply to others
- Comfortable talking about death and dying
- Willing to work with professionals and families in the planning and conducting of funerals
- Willing to offer ongoing support with the bereaved over a lengthy period.
- Able to maintain confidentiality and appropriate boundaries
- Committed to ongoing support for your ministry
- Open to learning and developing your understanding of bereavement care
People from all walks of life and backgrounds are called by God to serve as Funeral Ministers. This is a voluntary, usually part-time ministry. While it requires a regular commitment of time, the role is designed to be flexible and responsive to your individual circumstances.
As this is a ministry on behalf of the Church, you will serve under the guidance of your incumbent and with the agreement of your PCC. This ministry may involve visiting and supporting people whose experiences and perspectives differ from your own. You may be invited to conduct funerals and memorial services in local crematoriums, cemeteries as well as your local church helping to build relationships and understanding with your local community. You will be safely recruited following safeguarding guidelines.
Who to contact
Working out a calling is about listening attentively to God and reflecting with others.
If what you have read is making sense for you – you are feeling nudged to this ministry – then have a conversation with your Incumbent: you may find they are already thinking about how people can get involved. We want Lay Ministers to feel properly equipped for this significant role.
Your incumbent will need to contact the Training team for information and resources.
Safeguarding notice
All those who go on to exercise ministry on behalf of the church are safely recruited following DBS checks and safeguarding training.